Some people relate to God, as some giant, distant "force" in the Universe.
Other people relate to God simply as a "rule-setter," disciplinarian, or as a source of morality (what is right and wrong).
Yet others relate to God, only as someone they have to deal with when they die.
Many Christians relate to God, as an overbearing master who is very demanding of them. Who conspicuously critiques their daily lives.
Yet, for the person who has accepted Jesus Christ, God's Son, into their hearts and lives, how should they relate to God? As a loving, caring, Father; as demonstrated by how Christ Himself, related to the Father. It is why Christ instructed us to call God "Abba Father."
John 1:12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
Romans 8:15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
Galatians 4:6 And because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father.